Says Cox, 'Seventy-four percent of women in the survey said they'd feel self-conscious taking their clothes off in front of a perfectly toned man. I beg to differ, but as one without any schooling in the way of being a sexpert, I'll keep my thoughts on how women might just prefer humor and substance, as opposed to chiseled abs, to myself. not so perfect? According to sexpert Tracey Cox, women are scared that they can't live up to the perfect abs of a perfect man, so we go for the chubby guys instead. But why is this the case? Why is it that when it comes to the real world, the one we want to be with is, well.